Masculinity, where to even begin. Honestly, speaking as a man, it’s become very unclear what it is to be a man; what people want a man to be. This tough as stone, cool as ice, suave look men have been expected to hold simply doesn’t work. It’s a look that has been encouraging dominance, adoring violence and forever more feeding ones’ ego. This ‘masculinity’ though has been both slowly fading and growing. More and more are beginning to feel confident/accepted to display their true emotions, true selves.